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Alison Krauss and Union Station
So Long, So Wrong

What happened with So Long So Wrong?

 What happened with Mark's songs on the album?

Review excerpts of So Long So Wrong

About the songs (Mark's words)

What happened with So Long So Wrong?

  • Entered Country charts at #5; moved to #4 by the second week.
  • Entered Billboard Top 200 at #65, and moved to #50 by the second week.
  • Entered U.K. Country Charts at #3.
  • Favorably reviewed in national press such as Time, USA Today, and Rolling Stone.
  • Album went RIAA Gold (500,000+ copies sold). Not bad for an album with a lot of straight-ahead bluegrass on it!

What's happened with Mark's songs on the album?

  •  "Find My Way Back to My Heart" was chosen for release as the album's first country single. The CD single was sent to both reporting and non-reporting country stations around the country.
  • Scott Alarik wrote a great article in the Boston Sunday Globe, Sunday 3/30/97, sub-titled "Too Country for Country Radio?" No drums, acoustic instruments... the country radio consultants didn't back the album because it wasn't Hot New Country.
  • "Deeper Than Crying" was the B side of a promotional "single" from "So Long So Wrong" distributed in Europe.
  • "Find My Way" was also been made into a video, which was aired on CMT and TNN. It was featured on the "Sneak Preview" on CMT in Europe and Latin America, and on "Hitbound" for TNN.
  • "Find My Way Back to My Heart" was the lead song featured in the May, 1997 issue of New Country magazine and CD/sampler. It was also featured as the lead song on Rounder's sampler, "Frontiers of Country", Volume 6, a sampler sent out to a number of radio stations across the country.
  • Mark's two songs received favorable mention in several prominent reviews of the album (See Reviews below).

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Review Excerpts

Time Magazine
4/14/97

by Richard Corliss

...there's plenty for fans of Krauss's vocal virtuosity. Mark Simos's Find My Way Back To My Heart (whose melody echoes Paul McCartney's I've Just Seen A Face) is a lesson in hard-earned self-reliance.... These are songs in the past tense - love mourned, pain savored, from beyond the grave. Or from heaven: Krauss has the voice of a lost angel,beckoning you into the beyond.


Rolling Stone
[on-line review by Don McLeese]

Music this subtle and self-effacing is rare in any category; Union Station shuns both the hot-licks showboating of conventional bluegrass and the soft-rock suburbanization of contemporary country. Instead, the band's singular hybrid is both musically sophisticated and unaffectedly sincere, combining the hooks of pop melodicism with the purity of mountains spirituals through an acoustic latticework that emphasizes team interplay rather than individual virtuosity.

...With more nuanced material, such as the title song and the two by Mark Simos ("Deeper Than Crying" and "Find My Way Back To My Heart"), Krauss makes meditative melancholy sound like an emotional refuge, a haven where she can give intimate voice to what one of the songs ["Deeper Than Crying"] calls her "secret heart of hearts."


New Country
May 1997

On So Long So Wrong, Krauss and cohorts once again delve into bluegrass with renewed fervor, still keeping one foot planted firmly inmodern country and pop. "Find My Way Back to My Heart" says it all:skilled country harmony over clever chord changes, with Krauss's airyvocal bringing the tune's moving melody to the fore.


Front page of USA Today's Life section
Friday, March 28th

BEST BETS - Album

From the hot picking required for 'Little Liza Jane' to the gentle realization of Michael McDonald's pop dirge 'I Can Let Go Now,' Alison Krauss & Union Station's "So Long So Wrong" is up to any musical challenge. While the emotional restraint and exacting musical standards of bluegrass permeate everything they do, Krauss and company have shaped a unique sound that is both rootsy and contemporary. The album's top cuts include the sweet and rueful 'Find My Way Back To My Heart' about the sacrifices of the road and 'Looking in the Eyes of Love,' in which Krauss offers a surprising emotional outpouring.


Boston Globe Sunday
3/30/97 by Scott Alarik

Too Country for Country Radio? [Headline]

If that's the price I have to pay For doing things my own way Then it's what I'll have to do somehow. "Find My Way Back to My Heart," by Mark Simos

That refrain, from the new Alison Krauss single, is already being heard as a battle cry in bluegrass, folk, and county music.... Many see [So Long, So Wrong, by Alison Krauss and Union Station] as a real acid test for the ailing country music business, which is experiencing a decline in both record sales and radio listeners.


Alison Krauss and Union Station: the Unofficial Web Site:
by D. Stalnaker, Moderator

Deeper Than Crying - Depress me more...I love it. No one sings a "leaving" song the way AK does. Deeper than crying, indeed! To me, this one wouldn't have sounded out of place on the last Cox Family CD. What a pretty melody

Find My Way Back To My Heart - Another winner, and a good choice for the first single. AK cranks up the volume a bit on this one. Okay, so she still whispers a bit, but I like her balance on this cut. A great melody, fleshed out by great musicianship...

One of the greatest finds on this CD is the songwriter Mark Simos. He wrote two of my favorite songs on the album, "Deeper Than Crying" and "Find My Way Back To My Heart". Who is this guy? Anyone know his story? "Deeper..." has got to be one of the prettiest songs AK has ever recorded. One of the reviews I've read includes a comment that "Find My Way..." owes more than a little bit of credit to "I've Just Seen A Face" by Sir Paul McCartney. For those non-Beatle fans, "I've Just Seen A Face" is on the British version of "Help!". I hear *some* similarities, but maybe not as many as the Time reviewer.


Posted to: Alison Krauss and Union Station: the Unofficial Web Site: (D. Stalnaker, Moderator; note this website is now "de-commissioned")

I first heard "Find My Way Back to my Heart" while in a half-sleep dream world in the middle of the night. I wondered if I was dreaming or what, to hear this gorgeous voice, these perfect musicians who made all the right choices, and some real harmonically and structurally interesting stuff on a CW song. As soon as I had identified the song I ran to get the CD, and have been a devotee ever since. She and the band were worth the wait. A real knockout of a group.

- Bob Morin

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About the songs...

Reflections on Writing the Songs for Alison Krauss and Union Station's So Long, So Wrong
(Mark Simos · Feb 16, 1997 · Devachan Music)

For the last few days I've been wearing out the advance CD copy of Alison Krauss and Union Station's So Long, So Wrong. (Actually, CDs don't wear out, they tell me.) The album is so good that even if I weren't lucky enough to have two of my own songs on it I'd probably be playing it just as much. It's a thrill and an honor to have songs included in such a great collection spanning such a range of musical worlds. In trying to listen to how the songs fit together, and how my songs fit in with the album as a whole, I have brought back to mind much of the history of how the songs came to be written and the long "collaboration at a distance" that took place over the almost five years that these songs were on hold.

One thing that I imagine few people other than songwriters who have worked with Alison and her band could appreciate is how strong and yet respectful a role they play in shaping, editing and refining the material of the songs. In my case, I wrote both the songs ("Deeper than Crying" and "Find My Way Back to My Heart") after meeting Alison and hearing a lot of her music. (The latter song was written with Alison in mind, but in a special sense I'll talk about in a minute.) In any case, neither song is a great song for me to perform personally; they are instrumentally challenging and vocally not suited to my voice. So the songs reached Alison in what I'd call a "raw" state; not having aged much, not having been performed except for a few friends and on the demo tape, not having been lived with for very long.

When a song's in that state, a performing songwriter is usually just starting the editing process. Over many performances, you have to "file the burrs" off the tune and the words. As ruthless an editor as you may think you can be in the initial writing stage, you almost always discover assumptions you made that can be dispensed with, roundabout ways of saying things that can be simplified, etc. In the case of these songs, at least, I can say that Alison and the other members of Union Station effectively played that role. From the first day when Alison's enthusiastic response to the songs showed up on my answering machine (I considered saving the tape for posterity) there has been a dialogue involved. I wouldn't call it a co-writing relationship per se, because most of the changes involved taking little bits away in the right places; but as every songwriter knows taking away is often the key to the success of the song, not adding more!

When I listen to these songs, I can hear perhaps dozens of changes, to words ("for doing things my own way" to "by doing things my own way"), to phrasing and timing, to chord changes. It all works perfectly, even if someone else would have done it differently. It's clear to me that thought has gone into every aspect of the song; how many beats should come between the chorus and the next verse, when to leave in, and when to leave out, a passing chord. This is what makes a songwriter feel their work has been "lived into". A good song will withstand a lot of tugging and pushing and pulling anyway; what you listen for is whether the spirit of the song is being furthered, or obscured, by the changes.

Alison may not write her own songs (still hard for me to imagine) but her knowledge of what makes a good song shows up not only in her choice and selection and, of course, performances, but in countless interactions with the writers, invisible in the final, beautifully crafted pieces that emerge. I've had similar interactions with other people who have done my songs, like Laurie Lewis, Jo Miller of Ranch Romance, and Kate Brislin and Jody Stecher. It's one of the joys of being a songwriter placing material in the hands of great writers, singers and interpreters.

Writing the Songs

When I met Alison in 1991, I was just beginning to come into confidence with myself as a songwriter, although I'd been writing for many years. I'd had just one song recorded, "When the Nightbird Sings" by Laurie Lewis on her "Love Chooses You" Flying Fish album. I had been writing fiddle tunes for almost as long, and had been an accompanist for Irish music for many years. I had been living in Europe for the better part of a year; I was in the process of splitting up with my companion of almost five years, and dealing with my mother's illness.

When I met Alison and heard her music, I was blown away by the depth and sophistication of bluegrass music. I had grown up in California hearing a lot of bluegrass mixed in with everything else. I loved bands like the Bluegrass Cardinals that played around LA a lot, and the Good Old Persons in the Bay Area. But for the most part I had fallen in love with the older sound of traditional Southern old-time fiddle music and Irish music; bluegrass was just too "modern" for me! At that time, as a callow youth, I was drawn to the communal, trance aesthetic of old-time music more than the solo-swapping hot licks of the bluegrass jam sessions I had been around. At the time Laurie Lewis recorded my song I was pretty ignorant of more recent developments in bluegrass. So by the time I heard Union Station I was unprepared for what an incredible wellspring of musicianship and solid craftsmanship the modern bluegrass scene had turned into.

I've always found that I write new kinds of music after immersing myself in a certain world of sounds for a while. I filled my ears with Union Station's music, particularly those great John Pennell tunes. Then I found my own accompanist's sense of chord movement, derived in large part from Irish music, fusing with those sounds to create something that sounded pleasing.

About "Deeper Than Crying"

I heard a song of Ron Block's called "If You Can Tame A Heart, Then Half the Battle's Won" which knocked me out. The phrasing was different from any song I'd heard before, the six emphasized beats of the line was like discovering a new kind of poetic stanza. Imagine having written sonnets for years and then discovering haiku! That phrasing eventually surfaced in my song "Deeper than Crying". All this mixed up with my own circumstances into those two songs.

One funny bit of the songwriter/singer dialogue that occurred with this song had to do with the line "Deep inside my heart is also hurting sore." Originally the last words were "hurting sure." Alison and the band didn't really get that turn of phrase. Eventually it morphed into "hurting sore" (though it sounds like she might be singing "hurting so" on the actual track). So I told the band: "Fair enough; I guess I'll just have to write a song called "Hurting Sure" to show you guys what I meant." And eventually I did write that song; it's the penultimate track on my new upcoming CD, Crazy Faith.

About "Find My Way Back to My Heart"

"Find My Way..." was curious, in that it sort of fused my own life story at that point with the little glimpse I'd seen of Alison's band and life on the road. In some ways, I may have been writing a song I imagined she might write for herself. It was like taking my accompanist's sense one step farther; letting her voice live in me for awhile and seeing what came out. The result was an odd composite that wasn't really true for either of us, but had an integrity of character of its own (I hope).

In at least one respect that fusing went a little too far (for Alison, anyway!) The night I met the band they were in a hotel room, eating cold pizza and watching a horror movie on HBO. Thinking about life on the road (not that I was living it myself) I wrote the line: "Hotel rooms and pizza/and late night TV/Aren't the part of this life that endears it to me..." Later, Alison said she just couldn't sing those lines, though I protested that they were journalistically accurate I later decided for myself that maybe "The home I don't go home to/And the friends I don't see" might be a bit more of a universal experience...

At that time, I guess I hadn't completely decided whether I might go back to pursuing a musical life, though I was already pretty committed to returning to work in the technology field. What I did know was that I had just spent a long time in a relationship where I felt like the relationship itself was taking a lot of my energy, and I had reached a point in my life where I really needed all that energy to be there for figuring out my own work in the world. I didn't want to run away from the relationship, but I was beginning to realize that being in the relationship was a way of running away from me. It may sound funny, but I had to get a bit more self-centered for a while. (Now I think I may have gone too far in that direction!)

That's why the lead line of the song "...find my way back to my heart" is so odd; I noticed over the years that when people listened out of the "corner of their ears" they'd almost always switch it to "...find my way back to your heart." The latter would be the typical kind of romantic song to write; it basically says that my meaning revolves around another person, that getting their approval and avoiding rejection is the name of the game. But it was exactly that kind of imprisoning love relationship that I was finding stifling and cowardly for myself.

That's why it's not really a song about rejection of the other; in fact, you don't even know the song is about a relationship until the second verse. The first time you hear the chorus, therefore, there's a confusing period -- "It's too early to say that it's over, or to find we can make a new start..." could be the singer talking about the band and how successful their tour was going to be! Only the second verse definitively introduces the "person sung to"-- starting with the "we" and moving to the you only later in the verse. This breaks some basic songwriting rules, as my partner Kit pointed out while we listened to the band's recording of the song. It feels like a multiple-agenda problem, one I've often diagnosed in critiques of other people's songs. Is it a song about being on the road, or doing one's own thing, or being in a relationship, or settling the relationship? The answer is yes. The song is about the mysterious resonance between these things.

I've written a number of other songs where some outer event is mirrored by a dynamic in a relationship. I love crossing these polarities; songs of the world are not separate from songs of relationship, because it is our relationships that prepare us to meet the world, and we meet the world reflected in our relationships all the time. They are our windows. There are Bosnias, Rwandas, as well as Olympic Games and Wall Street bull runs in the day-to-day stories we play out with our partners.

Similarly, I'll often find that songs sung to the other become mirrors of songs sung to some part of myself. Fritz Perls, the father of Gestalt psychology, had a way of interpreting dreams where everything in the dream is you, woven out of your own soul-stuff, so every part of the dream can speak as you in interpreting the dream. ("So you're the dancing rabbit with wings. What do you want to say to Mark?") I often feel that songs put you into a similar dream-state.

To bring this back to "Find My Way" -- all this is hidden in that song in a way I could not see when I was writing it. This not coming to terms with the song showed up in my struggle over fixing up some of the last lines. "No one but me's gonna take my part" can sound peevish and defensive, or it can sound like owning up to the part I have to play that only I can play. What are the things that will remain undone if I do not do them? This is not competition; it's not about the chances that someone else will get if I don't move first. It's about doing what I came here to do, being what I came here to be; an act of stepping into the world. And you never know when this work is finished; it's always too early to say. "My heart" here is my destiny; and only in alignment with that can I answer a question like whether a relationship is alive or not.

This has been a retrospective of some of what went into writing the two songs for Alison, and an attempt to show the real nature of the collaboration involved in placing good songs in the hands of great artists. It was a five year wait -- but, man, was it ever worth it!

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